Why You Keep Attracting People Who Hurt You (Even When You Know Better)

You’ve done the work. You’re more self-aware than ever. And still….you find yourself in relationships that drain you, confuse you, or hurt you or all of the above.

Sound familiar?

This isn’t because you’re broken.It’s because your subconscious is running the show.

When you grow up around emotional neglect, criticism, or conditional love, your nervous system wires that as "familiar." And familiar feels safe, even if it’s not.

So you keep being pulled toward people who reflect that old dynamic, without realising it.

But here’s the truth:You can rewire what love feels like.You can teach your body and subconscious mind to recognise healthy love as safe. You can break the cycle. This is what I support women to do every day.

Here’s one way to start that I invite you to try,

Next time you're unsure about someone, ask yourself, "Does this feel familiar or does it feel safe?"

Ask this question and see what you get. Awareness is the first step to healing.

If you'd like support to break this pattern in your relationships, get in touch via www.vibrance4life.com/contact

With Love

Dhriti