Why You Keep Ending Up in the Same Painful Relationships
- Dhriti Mehra
- 8 hours ago
- 1 min read
You promised yourself you'd never go back there.Never again with the hot-and-cold partner. The emotional rollercoaster. The self-doubt.
And then… you find yourself right back in it.
Here’s why:Your subconscious is trying to resolve old wounds by choosing what feels familiar even if it hurts.
If love felt unsafe growing up, then chaos, inconsistency, or criticism will feel like "home."
But it doesn’t have to stay that way.
You can rewire your nervous system to recognise safe, supportive love.
I invite you to try this,
Ask yourself before reacting: “Is this person triggering something old in me?”
Notice what comes. Observe the answer that comes.
Awareness is powerful and the first step to healing and creating change.
And if you’re ready to stop repeating the past and finally experience love that nourishes, not depletes get in touch via www.vibrance4life.com/contact and I will share with you how I have supported women to do this.
With Love
Dhriti

































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